Holy groomer lmao at least be subtler about it

@meso bruh

@meso
meso zero social awareness arc

It must really suck constantly make up the homosexual menace in your head and be upset about them being in your head after you made them in your head

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI what?

@meso why do you only post about "faggots" and "groomers" for some weeks now? You know exactly that except for some poastie low lives nobody on fedi appreciates this language.
Why do you give so much headspace to hate that is completely optional, you could actually do something useful or have sex instead of showing this amount of obsession which most people find puzzling in the least

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI I'm a faggot is why, though I'm pretty sure this is the first time I've used the word groomer in weeks or months

@meso ok but when will u put on the maid dress?

@meso @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI snacks gets annoyed when i call him a faggot :c

@lucy @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI he is a faggot <3

@lucy @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI I call everyone a faggot I only called straight people that when I didn't have the pass I thought it'd be insensitive to use it unironically

@meso @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI he his cause im a gigahon :3

@lucy @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI oh so that's why he gets annoyed. No he is NOT a faggot in the literal sense of the word

@meso well then I hope you will come to terms with it eventually, it really comes off like projection and it just gives bad vibes. Ever since I introduced "actual fedi" into this Mastodong instance I try to balance out the different cohorts in a pragmatic manner, I really dislike Fediblock witchhunts but I don't want to flood "Federated" with slurs exclusively. I think the sheer amount of your use of the word doesn't look like ironic pragmatism but a fair share of bitterness about it

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI I'm not bitter about it you're just not desensitized enough to understand my usage of it

@lucy @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI good entrapment

@meso @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI >:333

@lucy @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI where is the rolled up newspaper emoji

@lucy @meso @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI lucy are you calling me straight

@mia @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @meso im sorry

@meso @lucy @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI didn’t backfire at all

@meso meso where is the grooming here .. unless that person is a minor in which case , yikes

@fiore "boys and men"

@VIPPER omg real, its like this meme

@meso @fiore dushmans alt

@meso ok yea fair

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @meso cállate

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @meso If someone is engaged in "egg-cracking", it's not an inappropriate use of language to call them a groomer.

@p @meso the pic gives off very uneasy vibes but the way most people understand "groomer" is manipulating someone into sexual exploitation. This is a profound accusation that should be exclusive to cases that are unambiguous. I don't exactly know if this person is attempting this, it could also be projection ("transgender identity works for me so it'll work for you") or just aesthetic preferences outside sexuality. My main point still was that meso exposes himself to anger voluntarily

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @p I think people give too much benefit of the doubt to sex pests in some spaces. If it quacks like a duck, safe spaces always attract exploiters, etc

@meso @p @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI so true.

you guys don't think I'm a sex pest right

@meso @p It would be way easier to call them out if it wouldn't attract poastie psychopaths in the replies immediately demanding industrial mass extinction of all trans people

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @p the culture should be changed, sex pests are more dangerous than blabbering morons

@meso you couldn't make this shit up, picrel

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @meso A genie appears and offers to grant you only one of two wishes: all of the mean accounts on Poast suddenly vanish, or all of the sexual predators on fedi suddenly vanish. Which wish do you select?

@p @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI yep, predators are wayyy worse than a retard on welfare posting about trannies and jews all day

@meso @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @p why is no one replying

@mischievoustomato @p @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI I was in the middle of taking a shit when I saw that post

@meso @p @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI AND

@mischievoustomato @p @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI I mean you are a tiny bit annoying about it but I have never seen you do anything predatory or assholish

@meso @p @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI my core tenet is to not do what i dont wanna do to the best of my ability and i extend that to others. might be one of the reasons i end alone, but I don't have the spirit to be forceful, nor the requirements for such a thing

@mischievoustomato @p @meso
I was busy doing stuff

You give off very ok vibes tbh if you would initiate sexual advances in a non ok way it would probably be because of a lack of understanding social norms, not ill intent as far as I can tell

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @meso

> the way most people understand "groomer" is manipulating someone into sexual exploitation.

This is what I would call "egg-cracking", yes.

> accusation that should be exclusive to cases that are unambiguous.

Did you ask if meso has seen this person before, how old the person being addressed is, etc.?

> My main point still was that meso exposes himself to anger voluntarily

Might be the case if he is angry, but I think it is reasonable to keep track of predatory behavior. You know about the pedo instances, some of which actively recruit teenagers; I'd rather know about them than not know about them.

@p @meso @p @meso
"egg cracking" is usually one of the following three:

• projection of own content with trans identity

can come off as cult-like ("The spaceship will also set you free, you just have to follow me!!")
The problematic part is the cult like behavior like lovebombing and destabilizing another ones identity, but it's not sexual

• aesthetic favor for gender-unorthodox presentation

generally unproblematic

• trying to gain sexual material of boys

problematic, send the firing squad

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @p its a sexual thing at core, it gets them off

@meso @p
bro if this thread goes Blanchardian it will go 2000+ notifications hellthread territory

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @p it isn't blanchardian to say some people get off to hurting others and exploiting them sexually, nothing to do with Blanchard or gender or whatever

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @meso

> • projection of own content with trans identity

I believe that there are plenty of sincere people and this sort of thing does occur. It does sound to me like you are not willing to acknowledge the psychopaths that have picked out an identity because it makes them immune to criticism. This absolutely occurs, and "A psychopath would never claim to be trans!" is an absurd statement.

> • aesthetic favor for gender-unorthodox presentation

People phrase it very differently when it's something like that.

> • trying to gain sexual material of boys
> problematic, send the firing squad

Sure; no disagreement from me.

@p @meso
My point is from knowing that there is a coordinated effort by big evangelical christian money and terminally online keyboard warriors to program everyone to immediately suspect anyone with trans identity in the public sphere of being a predator.
But on second thought, yeah I can see your point in weaponizing protected class status to cause mischief, for me the keffals debacle immediately comes to mind. I got the naive hope that even hostile cohorts should work together to stop this

@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @meso

> there is a coordinated effort by big evangelical christian money and terminally online keyboard warriors to program everyone to immediately suspect anyone with trans identity

Yes, I'm aware there are people that want to push that story. On one end of it, they want to paint all of them with that brush, and on the other end of it, they refuse to acknowledge that the problem exists because they are concerned that it hurts their own legitimacy.


> I got the naive hope that even hostile cohorts should work together to stop this

I have hoped for this and have not seen it. I've seen internet-Nazis complaining about Larry Fink or the IMF/World Bank/Rothschilds/Rockefellers/Carnegies/etc., and I say "You know, if you just put down your fixation on Jews for a minute, you could get people behind eliminating that particular stranglehold; even I'd sign up for that." Same as with the commies, the ideology is more important than the practical effects. So the big international banks will stay right where they are, ruining everything like usual.

This is actually why I was a little harsh initially, I'm so used to people jumping in and being in one brigade or the other that it gets hard to notice when someone's got an opinion that doesn't fit into the culture-war box; apologies.
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@EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @p @meso just keep that shit out schools and there's no isssue