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fuzzylinuxuser@bark.lgbt

Luna from Fedi verified_paw

I'm not sure, but it's been a while since I've came out of my poss den aaaaa

I'm curious, is it really a thing that we (with autism) have often selective mutism and struggle/don't think much about doing so much socialization? Let alone posting in fediverse? :o

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foxyoreos@gulp.cafe

foxyoreos (🔞)

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@fuzzylinuxuser I'm not sure if it's specifically an autism thing or not, but I think it correlates with autism that social interactions are work, even when they're enjoyable, and sometimes we just crash and we can't do them, or build up associations with myself.

For me I don't have a lot of issues updating fedi, but I keep forgetting to or just not feeling up to checking the Matrix chats X3

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fuzzylinuxuser@bark.lgbt

Luna from Fedi verified_paw

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@foxyoreos :3c

Also I doubt I can even communicate with 15 friends on a single day, and when I looked around for experiences of autistic women, they did indeed confirm a lot that we barely manage to handle many people, or don't even have that much active friends aaaaa

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getimiskon

gettie (neocat_googly_woozy arc) OwOid verified_neko neocat_flag_ace neocat_flag_nb

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@fuzzylinuxuser probably (i know i kind of do, but mostly irl)
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fuzzylinuxuser@bark.lgbt

Luna from Fedi verified_paw

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Also, as for responding, some don't reply to messages out of various genuine reasons, but ignorance, unwilligness and hostility is not in the set of genuine reasons i.e. not elements of it.

As for myself, communicating and talking and having initiatives is hard!! Aaaaaaa

Hence, my default is... reply with my expresssion in emoticons and that's mostly about it. :3c

Alongside re-affirming what the conversation partner says instead of struggling to come up with things!!

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