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am i asexual, low libido, or traumatized?

tbh, does it really matter? youre not disenfranchising anyone by calling yourself ace.

a label isnt a box. you’re not a piece of fruit that has to either be an apple, or an orange

a label is there to tell other people how to treat you, not to control how you feel.

one of the greatest reliefs to me was that i can call myself ace. even if i get horny sometimes. even if i have a headmate who would absolutely fuck a dragon if she could. even if i enjoy posting nudes online. even if it really is just abysmally low libido from HRT, or trauma turning me off.

i can use the label ace to describe how other people should treat me, and thats what matters.

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