NeonPurpleStar 
NeonPurpleStar@outerheaven.club
i keep getting impostor syndrom
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many of my friends are queer thou XD
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But I have met both very nice queer people (who even have some patience with misgendering them on the TRPG Table here and there...) and also more than enough who are programmers themselves but are also very fine with people just interested in tech xD (Some of the tech stuff just flies over my head)
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Mira ✨
@NeonPurpleStar I think that I know a similar feeling. “Am I just saying that I’m an enby so that I can be part of the community?”
Impostor syndrome is mean. You are valid. 
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@NeonPurpleStar Ah, no worries, I didn’t interpret you as exclusively liking men and women but nothing in between… Are there even people like that?
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NeonPurpleStar
NeonPurpleStar@outerheaven.club
i have my own gender dysphoria, because i dislike my own masculinity and like being fem
but i am ok with me being amab
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@mira @NeonPurpleStar i have heard of some like that but i don’t know if they are worth anyones time
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@NeonPurpleStar @mira in theory the bi/pan divide is like this but like
why bother
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@NeonPurpleStar Enby can be lots of things, and maybe it’s not even possible to list them all, all that’s clear is that it’s not man and not woman!
For me, being an enby (with an agender flavour) is seeing how society divides everything into feminine and masculine, and being like “to hell with that, I don’t want these pointless rules and restrictions, I am me and I want to freely pick from column A and from column B”.
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@getimiskon @NeonPurpleStar “I want to be an enby” was definitely a thought that I once had 
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gettie (
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getimiskon
@NeonPurpleStar
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@getimiskon @NeonPurpleStar I don’t think you need to put in any effort to use a label. A trans person isn’t defined by transitioning, even if the name might suggest it.
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@getimiskon @NeonPurpleStar When I started identifying as agender, I honestly wasn’t expecting anything to change. I mean, it’s just a label, right? But then I started seeing myself in a new light and some things changed on their own.
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